'From Lad to Dad' - Book Review, Babyworld 2005

Review of: 'From Lad to Dad' by Stephen Giles
Written For: Babyworld.co.uk
Date of Review: August 2005

What it's all about: 'From Lad to Dad' is, unsurprisingly, one man's journey through pregnancy and into fatherhood. Stephen Giles uses a journal-type format to chart his feelings, his fears and his joys from the first steps in conception to his first Christmas as a new Dad.

Presentation: A short book at just 106 pages, the book takes a simple narrative style, interspersed with words of advice taken from his own experience and those of other fathers who contributed.

Tone and target audience: It is easy to read, written with humour, sensitivity and intelligence. The tone and approach is light, and while not avoiding the more serious issues doesn't make anything too deep and meaningful. Imagine Nick Hornby with less football, a touch less wit and fewer euphemisms for excrement, and you get the idea. I wouldn't class this as a useful book - it's more entertainment than education, despite Giles's stated intentions, and he's never going to supplant Miriam Stoppard.

The good points: There's some good information in 'From Lad to Dad', including useful pointers towards paternity leave entitlement and when you are eligible to apply for it. Giles also offers helpful advice on dealing with the assorted professionals (and amateurs) encountered on the tricky trek to fatherhood.

It's a light, easy read with a good sense of humour, introducing dads to the trials and joys of pregnancy without inducing bowel-squeezing terror or galloping alcoholism. It's small and light enough to fit in the hospital bag, so it could be a good delivery room read.

The bad points: Like many fathers I've met, he seemed to try to make the whole thing dramatic - it's not enough to have conception, pregnancy and birth, it has to be worthy of E.R. in drama and Hitchcock in suspense. This made me take his suggestions less seriously than they perhaps deserved.

One thing I disliked was the tendency to use this book as a vehicle to plug other White Ladder Press publications. If I want to quit smoking, I'll search Amazon and find a book. I don't need advertising in a parenting book, thanks.